Stepparent Adoption Blog

02/07/08

Three Years Ago Today...

Posted by : Julie Crowley in Stepparent Adoption Blog at 07:54 pm , 461 words, 1241 views  
Categories: Celebrating Adoption
Three years ago today a judge sitting in his chambers finally put his signature on a stack of papers that had been sitting in his inbox for more than a week. Of course for the better part of that time, the judge had been on vacation, so I suppose in hindsight I could cut him some slack for taking his sweet time in finalizing our adoption!

Roughly three times a day, for roughly two weeks my voice was a fixture over the phone lines at our local courthouse, desperately wanting to know if he (the judge) had put his signature at the bottom of our paperwork, making our adoption official, all of the woman who worked at the office had come to know my voice, and after a few days I no longer had to introduce myself before they would politely tell me that he still had not signed our paperwork and brought it out of his office to be filed.

Then finally, three days after he had actually signed them, he brought them out of his office, and after the woman got back on the line after putting me on hold so that she could check 'one last time' for me, she excitedly told me the good news, congratulated me, and hung up, most likely relieved that I would no longer be calling and bugging them every few hours of the day. Seriously I was a pain. I knew our case number by heart, the judge's name, every office employee's name, the courthouse phone line numbers, all three of them, the department extensions, you name it, I memorized it!

SPONSOR

Tonight we celebrated our Forever Family Day, by having a relaxing family dinner of pizza in front of the television while engrossed in the Disney movie, Meet The Robinsons. It was a cute movie, and both boys seemed to enjoy it. It definitely wasn't Disney's best movie, but it was cute nonetheless. We had originally planned on going out to dinner this evening, but the cold, driving wind persuaded us to stay inside and let dinner come to us.

It's been a great day, and we had a lot of fun sitting together as a family and watching a movie. We usually do not eat with the TV on, so getting to sit downstairs in mommy and daddy's room eating pizza AND watching a movie was just pure heaven for the kids! Now they are quietly munching on their special cookies that daddy picked up for them before heading off to bed, and I have a moment to steal away for myself and reflect on how lucky I am to have such wonderful kids, and that I am truly blessed to be able to be a mom to both of them!

Comments, Pingbacks:

Comment from: elisabethgrace16 [Member]
I'm about to get married to a man who has two amazing children. He has full custody of the children. Their birth-mother is supposed to be paying child support, but has not paid a dime. She also has not seen them in at least 3 years. When we get married I want to adopt them. Do you recommend using a lawyer? If no are their any do-it-yourself resources that you recommend? I would like to try and do it without a lawyer. Thanks...any advice is welcome.
PermalinkPermalink 06/12/08 @ 11:57
Leave a Comment: You need to login to leave comments.:

Login | Register

Login To AdoptionBlogs.com

Search

Sponsors

Misc

Subscribe to Stepparent Adoption Blog

 Enter your email address:
 

 

Who's Online?

  • Guest Users: 111